Him: I have a problem with my system, and the system is too large.
Me: Analyze it.
Him: I am, but it takes too long because my system is large.
Me: Use a tool.
Him: I do not have one that matches my problem.
Me: Build one.
Him: It's too expensive.
Me: It does not have to be.
Him: I do not know how.
Me: Learn.
Him: I do not have time.
Me: Why not?
Him: Because I have to find a solution to my problem, and the system is too large.
There are several ways to get out of this loop:
While the first two might be appealing, humane assessment offers you the third way. It is simply a matter of changing the perspective.